Forgiveness is a tough concept to grasp
Forgiving someone might be even harder
But sometimes you have to realize that forgiving someone isn’t meant for the other person; often, forgiveness of self is truly the incentive here
The more you hold on, the more grudge that builds up, the more you are weighed down. Forgiveness is letting all of that go.
It does not mean you condone the other person’s actions. It doesn’t mean they were right.
It simply means you are willing to let it stop holding you down.